What about a time when you should have but didnt

     Recently, I tend not to regret any decisions that I have or going to make. So I think a lot before actually making the decision.

     The most recently thing that I should have but I didnt was about one of my girlfriends.

     Fast forward back to 2015 summer, the summer that I came to a new country. I had been with that girl for 3 years and we were like the best couples in our school, teachers even decided not to destroy our relationship.

     When I made the decision to came to Canada, I did take her into consideration. But after a thorough analysis, I still decided to go. I had been thinking how I should pass the message to her, and finally I decided to tell her over phone. I realized afterwards i should have tell her in person but i didn't

     I still remember it was a lunch break between my Saturaday classes. As soon as i told her that i was leaving in a few months, she started crying. I do not panic too often, but as soon as a girl starts crying, i panic and do not know what to do at all. She threw a bunch of questions to me after calmed down a bit, but I did not know how to answer, or maybe because i did not have an answer that would make sense to her. She was heart broken for awhile afterwards. It was a tough way to tell someone you love and who loves you that you are leaving. If i chose to tell in person, maybe things could get better, the accepting process could be smoother

     Luckily, she was understanding enough to support my choice afterwards. After I came to Canada, because of time difference and distance, we both decided to be in open relationship. I am so lucky that i think till now, both of us have not find a better partner:)